I had a conversation with my coach and her words resonated with me all weekend. I repeated it over and over in my mind. Love is when someone doesn’t “need” you but rather “wants” you. Love is wanting you beside them for no other reason than to be around you. Love is stillness and peace knowing that the person next to you accepts you just as you are.

Having gone through a period of loss I know for a fact that love is what matters in the end. During this pandemic it really makes one reflect on what is truly important. In the end the most painful regret was wondering if the person you’ve lost really knew how much you loved them and how much they loved you.

My relationship coach told me that everything I want is possible. I’ve heard it before but that day it resonated with me. She said picture that relationship and know you can have it all. I realize now that I’ve been settling. I’ve only scratched the surface on love. If we’re being honest the majority of the population has been taught these limitations by a dysfunctional household. In order to change I need to radically change my actions. I noticed that I’ve been bolder and I ask for what I need. I speak up and my relationships have changed. Everything around me has been changing and it’s completely exciting. I get to choose and create my life in love and career. Start by imagining and feeling the life you want. The brain can’t decipher between a memory or imagination. Then watch it present a variety of opportunities that come your way. Now clearly choose everything that you want. It’s working for me and I hope the same for you!